
On November 7th, 2010 Glenn and I were honored to attend the wedding my my English student, Yuki and her fiancee, Ken. I was so excited to attend a Japanese wedding and even more excited that Glenn got to experience it with me! It was very western in style with a few distinct differences.
Here is a picture of Ken and Yuki after the ceremony ringing the church bell! Beautiful!
We started the day on the 6th floor of the reception hall with juice and coffee. We signed the guest book, gave our gift to the attendants (cash in odd quantities only) and looked at the picture books of the couple. A few minutes before 11 am, we were ushered downstairs and around to the backside of the hotel/reception/chapel to the chapel entrance.
The ceremony was in Japanese, but was traditional enough in style that Glenn and I could figure out what was going on. We just hummed along with the hymns since we didn't know the words in Japanese.
The minister was Dutch or from somewhere in Europe so he even said a few lines in English. Thanks!
The ceremony was held at an Episcopalian church that looked very much like a wedding back home. Except for the lilies. You don't see too many lilies at weddings in America. This was the only picture I got inside the church though til I got a "baby x" to stop taking pictures inside. I guess only the professional photographer gets to take pictures inside. After the ceremony there were scheduled photo-ops where they posed and we could take pictures (like the bell ringing above, cake cutting, etc).
After the ceremony, we were escorted up to the 3rd floor to the party room. It was beautiful and pink and very elegant.
After everyone was settled, the couple made their entrance complete with spot light and Disney music. They entire day was very theatrical and show like. So fun to watch!
What's this? Deja vous? Nope! Costume change! About half way through the party and 7 amazing courses of food, they changed to their party clothes!
The entire affair was very scheduled. Salad course, entrance. Fish course, video montage. More food, gift giving ceremony. More food, toasts from the most important guests (bosses, no FOB toast here). After their costume change they came around and lit the centerpieces on each table and then a giant candle up front.
Next on the agenda? Group photos with each table.
Yoko-san, the MOB, is also my student in another class. We received another gift from the Bride and Groom as we exited the party. In addition to the pastries and dishes we received on our seats at the beginning of the party!
Thank you for inviting us to such a wonderful party! A memory from our time in Japan that I will never forget.